2 thoughts on “What are you preparing in Nanjing?”
Tomas
Protocoling is the custom since ancient times. It is the minimum sincerity of the man's family. It is also the most important step of obtaining the consent of the woman's parents. However, there are many rules of pro -relatives. If you are not careful, you may make mistakes. Therefore, the lovers who cultivate the positive fruit must understand the rules of the relatives. For example, what you need to say, what to send, etc. on your door, so as to do what you want, and refresh your relatives smoothly. Today, I will share with you the rules of mentioning relatives!
. The rules of Nanjing's relatives
The man must know the rules of the time
1 • Pay attention to the clothing and dress: Clean and neat.
2 · Do not empty hand: go to the woman's house to mention relatives, don't forget to bring a little gift. This is a kind of politeness and respect for the elders. Although they say that they are not polite, they will be very happy.
3 · Smile full face: Do not frown on your face, show your sincerity and smile. This score will add a lot.
4 · Represents respect: Respect for the requirements or opinions mentioned by the woman as much as possible, and handle it in accordance with their regulations.
5. Go to the appointment on time: must not be late. If you really get a little too later because of the traffic jam or other force majeure factors, you must quickly call a little later.
6. Leaving at noon: The man must leave at noon (from 11 am to 1 pm). Please ask the man to the woman's house around 10 o'clock and leave before noon.
The woman must know when I was mentioning.
2 · Welcome in person: The woman went to the door to welcome the male guest to show respect. And take seats.
3 · Don't take off your shoes: You can't take off your shoes, please come in directly.
4 · Costumes: The clean and neatness of the dress is to leave a good impression.
5 · The environment is neat: the environment should be cleaned in advance, cleaning cleanly.
6 · Enrollment snacks: fruits, fruit juice, sweet tea (mouth sweetly speaks good, the marriage is smooth), water, do not prepare tea (looking for 碴), soda (looking for qi).
7 · Attitude and goodness: In the future, you will marry the man's house. Do not make the man too difficult to make a good relationship.
8 · Do not say goodbye: When the man wants to leave, you cannot go out to send it, do not say goodbye to see you or come again (meaning that you will mention the second relative), just nod and laugh and leave. rnrn提亲的注意事项rnrn1·多久前提亲：建议差不多半年的时间rnrn2·如何提结婚的事：rn 1) Please ask the groom to go out and ask the woman's parents to ask if you come to mention it;
2) The prospective bride first test the meaning of his parents.
3. Before mentioning relatives: officially visit the woman's parents, the costumes should be neat, and told them to tell them that you are going to get married. After obtaining the consent, confirm the date of the relatives, and ask the date of the woman's parents. Time to express respect.
4 · Live date: No need to watch the days. The first month of the lunar calendar and July should not be mentioned. Double number of lunar calendar. Some elders like to have 6 days.
5 · Picking time: In the morning, it cannot exceed 12 noon.
6 · The number of relatives: preferably double, 6 people (excluding children). Both parents must go to (or the elders of the family or the powerful person to attend) prospective groom, the older generation of people to mention that they only need to get the matchmaker. Some aunts cannot be accompanied by their generations, such as aunt, aunt (sister, sister). In the custom, there are many aunts who appear lonely after the bride gets started.
7 · Sweet gifts: sweet things (unlimited), round cakes (representing things that can be round and full), apple gift box, auspicious joy (not to buy pear). The handicap must be doubled, and the man's parents can add a few words to express their sincerity when they are delivered.
8 · Newcomer do not intervene: let adults talk by themselves to show respect.
. The customs of engagement in Nanjing
The custom habits on the door
Say you want cakes and cakes. Two fish, two meats, and some fruits. Tobacco and alcohol are the old traditions of Chinese gifts, which are more formal. Pleasant sugar, showing festiveness. The cake means step by step. Cai Li: It can be gifts or gold and silver jewelry. This mainly depends on what the various family says.
The custom of the parents of both parents met
Mo -parent parents met for the first time, not only the matter of two newcomers, but the two families, so the key parents of both parties The custom of meeting must be known. Let ’s learn the customs of the parents of the two parties in Nanjing's marriage customs with Xiaobian.
The pro -proof
The parent, that is, the parents of both parties meet. In Nanjing, things that two parents meet are called coming. What I want to say here is the first time to come to the door. As the name suggests, you have to enter the door of the house, and you have to enter the door of the house. Some etiquette is indispensable. Generally, the parents of both parties are inevitable, and there are introductions between the two parties. Customs. Even if you are free to fall in love, you will talk about yourself, and in the end, you must give you a introduce person, let alone the blind date. But if you don't pay attention to these customs, you will naturally don't care. Let's say more according to customs.
What to do on the door
Generally speaking, the man comes to the door first, with the man's introducer, the woman and the parents of the woman are usually waiting at home, knocking on the door, knocking on the door Open the door, welcome the guests, pour tea, tea fruit snacks, melon seeds and peanuts, naturally essential. Sit together to eat Xiaodong Xiaoshi, chat, talk about the sky, talk about each other, and understand each other's family. , Estiments, structure, living habits, and so on.
The family habits are side by side. Of course, when I brought a male/girlfriend home before, my parents also asked. This is a deep understanding. Through speaking, you can also know the ideological character and humanity as a parent.
What to eat
It is to eat again. The restaurant is convenient, that is, the price is higher. Anyway, no matter where they eat, the two juniors of love are tested. At this time, eating is not the kind of food at home and eats. Usually, drinks and drinks are indispensable. The atmosphere is needed. You have to eat a taste.
This on the table, drinks and drinks, each falling down, respecting each other on both sides, of course, do not fall down from their introduceders. At this time, the junior should take the initiative to stand up and respect one by one. You can eat with peace of mind. After eating this, I still have a good time. The parents of the East Parents are short. When there is no topic, when the introducer appears, there is a strap here, anyway, you can't be cold anyway. The man is going to the woman's house, and the woman has to go to the man's house. The customs are the same.
. What is the difference between the relatives and engagement
1 · What is the relatives
You want to marry their daughter's wish. It is a formal occasion that the man's parents and boyfriend brought gifts to come to the woman's house to propose to marry the woman. They are both parents and two people.
2 · What is engagement
is engaged, that is, the meaning of fixing relatives, that is, the woman agrees with your proposal. The parents of the woman also agreed to marry their daughter, and then help you Zhang Luo to have everything, and prepare to tell all relatives and friends to declare your relationship with the woman. The engagement is a ritual of the family members of the two parties. The two formally determined to get married and put the registration for the schedule. Since then, the two are the relationship between fiance and fiancee.
3 · Differences of relatives and engagement
In different explanations of relatives and engagement, it can be seen that the relatives are just a wish for the woman's family to form a marriage, and the engagement is directly to the men and women. The willingness to get married is determined. Therefore, from the traditional marriage customs, the relatives are just an idea, and the engagement is to establish a marriage relationship between the two. Therefore, there is a big difference between the two.
did you learn experience after reading the sharing of Xiaobian? Protocol seems to be a form, but it is not simple. I have a secret secretly telling everyone that if you want to mention your relatives and complete it quickly, you need to tell your parents to tell your parents in advance. Don't wait to take a surprise to the parents of the woman on the same day. Everyone must remember!
Protocoling is the custom since ancient times. It is the minimum sincerity of the man's family. It is also the most important step of obtaining the consent of the woman's parents. However, there are many rules of pro -relatives. If you are not careful, you may make mistakes. Therefore, the lovers who cultivate the positive fruit must understand the rules of the relatives. For example, what you need to say, what to send, etc. on your door, so as to do what you want, and refresh your relatives smoothly. Today, I will share with you the rules of mentioning relatives!
. The rules of Nanjing's relatives
The man must know the rules of the time
1 • Pay attention to the clothing and dress: Clean and neat.
2 · Do not empty hand: go to the woman's house to mention relatives, don't forget to bring a little gift. This is a kind of politeness and respect for the elders. Although they say that they are not polite, they will be very happy.
3 · Smile full face: Do not frown on your face, show your sincerity and smile. This score will add a lot.
4 · Represents respect: Respect for the requirements or opinions mentioned by the woman as much as possible, and handle it in accordance with their regulations.
5. Go to the appointment on time: must not be late. If you really get a little too later because of the traffic jam or other force majeure factors, you must quickly call a little later.
6. Leaving at noon: The man must leave at noon (from 11 am to 1 pm). Please ask the man to the woman's house around 10 o'clock and leave before noon.
The woman must know when I was mentioning.
2 · Welcome in person: The woman went to the door to welcome the male guest to show respect. And take seats.
3 · Don't take off your shoes: You can't take off your shoes, please come in directly.
4 · Costumes: The clean and neatness of the dress is to leave a good impression.
5 · The environment is neat: the environment should be cleaned in advance, cleaning cleanly.
6 · Enrollment snacks: fruits, fruit juice, sweet tea (mouth sweetly speaks good, the marriage is smooth), water, do not prepare tea (looking for 碴), soda (looking for qi).
7 · Attitude and goodness: In the future, you will marry the man's house. Do not make the man too difficult to make a good relationship.
8 · Do not say goodbye: When the man wants to leave, you cannot go out to send it, do not say goodbye to see you or come again (meaning that you will mention the second relative), just nod and laugh and leave. rnrn提亲的注意事项rnrn1·多久前提亲：建议差不多半年的时间rnrn2·如何提结婚的事：rn
1) Please ask the groom to go out and ask the woman's parents to ask if you come to mention it;
2) The prospective bride first test the meaning of his parents.
3. Before mentioning relatives: officially visit the woman's parents, the costumes should be neat, and told them to tell them that you are going to get married. After obtaining the consent, confirm the date of the relatives, and ask the date of the woman's parents. Time to express respect.
4 · Live date: No need to watch the days. The first month of the lunar calendar and July should not be mentioned. Double number of lunar calendar. Some elders like to have 6 days.
5 · Picking time: In the morning, it cannot exceed 12 noon.
6 · The number of relatives: preferably double, 6 people (excluding children). Both parents must go to (or the elders of the family or the powerful person to attend) prospective groom, the older generation of people to mention that they only need to get the matchmaker. Some aunts cannot be accompanied by their generations, such as aunt, aunt (sister, sister). In the custom, there are many aunts who appear lonely after the bride gets started.
7 · Sweet gifts: sweet things (unlimited), round cakes (representing things that can be round and full), apple gift box, auspicious joy (not to buy pear). The handicap must be doubled, and the man's parents can add a few words to express their sincerity when they are delivered.
8 · Newcomer do not intervene: let adults talk by themselves to show respect.
. The customs of engagement in Nanjing
The custom habits on the door
Say you want cakes and cakes. Two fish, two meats, and some fruits. Tobacco and alcohol are the old traditions of Chinese gifts, which are more formal. Pleasant sugar, showing festiveness. The cake means step by step. Cai Li: It can be gifts or gold and silver jewelry. This mainly depends on what the various family says.
The custom of the parents of both parents met
Mo -parent parents met for the first time, not only the matter of two newcomers, but the two families, so the key parents of both parties The custom of meeting must be known. Let ’s learn the customs of the parents of the two parties in Nanjing's marriage customs with Xiaobian.
The pro -proof
The parent, that is, the parents of both parties meet. In Nanjing, things that two parents meet are called coming. What I want to say here is the first time to come to the door. As the name suggests, you have to enter the door of the house, and you have to enter the door of the house. Some etiquette is indispensable. Generally, the parents of both parties are inevitable, and there are introductions between the two parties. Customs. Even if you are free to fall in love, you will talk about yourself, and in the end, you must give you a introduce person, let alone the blind date. But if you don't pay attention to these customs, you will naturally don't care. Let's say more according to customs.
What to do on the door
Generally speaking, the man comes to the door first, with the man's introducer, the woman and the parents of the woman are usually waiting at home, knocking on the door, knocking on the door Open the door, welcome the guests, pour tea, tea fruit snacks, melon seeds and peanuts, naturally essential. Sit together to eat Xiaodong Xiaoshi, chat, talk about the sky, talk about each other, and understand each other's family. , Estiments, structure, living habits, and so on.
The family habits are side by side. Of course, when I brought a male/girlfriend home before, my parents also asked. This is a deep understanding. Through speaking, you can also know the ideological character and humanity as a parent.
What to eat
It is to eat again. The restaurant is convenient, that is, the price is higher. Anyway, no matter where they eat, the two juniors of love are tested. At this time, eating is not the kind of food at home and eats. Usually, drinks and drinks are indispensable. The atmosphere is needed. You have to eat a taste.
This on the table, drinks and drinks, each falling down, respecting each other on both sides, of course, do not fall down from their introduceders. At this time, the junior should take the initiative to stand up and respect one by one. You can eat with peace of mind. After eating this, I still have a good time. The parents of the East Parents are short. When there is no topic, when the introducer appears, there is a strap here, anyway, you can't be cold anyway. The man is going to the woman's house, and the woman has to go to the man's house. The customs are the same.
. What is the difference between the relatives and engagement
1 · What is the relatives
You want to marry their daughter's wish. It is a formal occasion that the man's parents and boyfriend brought gifts to come to the woman's house to propose to marry the woman. They are both parents and two people.
2 · What is engagement
is engaged, that is, the meaning of fixing relatives, that is, the woman agrees with your proposal. The parents of the woman also agreed to marry their daughter, and then help you Zhang Luo to have everything, and prepare to tell all relatives and friends to declare your relationship with the woman. The engagement is a ritual of the family members of the two parties. The two formally determined to get married and put the registration for the schedule. Since then, the two are the relationship between fiance and fiancee.
3 · Differences of relatives and engagement
In different explanations of relatives and engagement, it can be seen that the relatives are just a wish for the woman's family to form a marriage, and the engagement is directly to the men and women. The willingness to get married is determined. Therefore, from the traditional marriage customs, the relatives are just an idea, and the engagement is to establish a marriage relationship between the two. Therefore, there is a big difference between the two.
did you learn experience after reading the sharing of Xiaobian? Protocol seems to be a form, but it is not simple. I have a secret secretly telling everyone that if you want to mention your relatives and complete it quickly, you need to tell your parents to tell your parents in advance. Don't wait to take a surprise to the parents of the woman on the same day. Everyone must remember!
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